Have you ever asked yourself, why do I want to be in a relationship? Why do I really want or feel that I need a boyfriend or a girlfriend? This book will not tell you about the great benefits of being in a relationship. My purpose is to get you to analyze your reasoning. Why in the first place. Now don't get me wrong, there's absolutely nothing wrong with wanting a relationship. This book can give you the possible reason why in depth. Believe it or not, there are many motives that drive us to seek out relationships. There's absolutely nothing strange or wrong with being single. Maybe I can be intimate with mysef first, learning to love all of me. I don't know who I am yet, therefore I don't what I really want. I had to be honest and ask myself, what is my intent? Is there a hidden agenda behind my chase for love? I believe that if a person has a good relationship with themselves, then the constant need to be in a relationship would end.