Be the faithful wife or girlfriend who teaches that her area is respected, in the same way that she respects the area of her husband or boyfriend, within the limits of cordiality, communication and fidelity. That is learned and taught! How? With patience, tolerance and a lot of intelligence: that's what I call a bird eating on the palm of your hand!
Be the star of your interpersonal relationships and at the same time, be humble in accepting your defeats and triumphs. To take advantage of that learning and put it into practice for later effects, this is resilience.
In other countries, of course, it is not in his word the term: Cuaima, but men's aptitude to women is universal and there are likely to be various ways of expressing their discontent when their wife behaves differently than he expects.
Today, women are synonymous with intelligence, perseverance, constancy, struggle, dynamism, love, freedom and if someone says: You are a cuaima! You must respond with pride: "I am Cuaima, so what?